i am in a meeting right now. had no idea how americans can come up with so many unnecessary meetings. they sound all legitimate, organizing our tasks, reporting our progresses, indicating any potential issues...but what is happening here is that we spend more time with meetings than actually working on things...

speaking of work, i recently found out that i am really not that great at work. what a surprise, ha, not good at so many things...should get used to it already. i am not patient, detailed, organized...none of those things, that are needed at my job. so, go figure.

it could be dep

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这个问题问过自己很多会，还是不知道答案是什么。其实重要的并不在于什么是爱情，而在于假如你爱上人，你会怎样去爱他。

我曾经跟别人说过我爱你。但事实上，在需要我为他付出的时候，我愿意付出的少得可怜。我很确定自己非常喜欢他，愿意和他在一起，常常想念他，然而这就算是爱情吗？

也许是，但也是自私的无意义的爱情。爱情首要条件就是愿意付出吧，失去自我，至少到一定程度。